The gentleman still exists, but sometimes it takes something special to bring it out. A man who maintains eye contact and isn’t distracted by the supermodel stunner at the next table is one who only has eyes for you. He maintains eye contact. I realize guys are going to notice other women, but a wandering eye on the first date means he’s not worth your time or that painful push-up bra you’re wearing. It’s also his way of saying that it’s fine to start calling or texting immediately. He wants the last thing you think about to be him, so he sends you a sweet (not creepy) goodnight text. He sends a sweet goodnight text. This happens right after he drops you off or around the time he thinks you might have gotten home if you drove yourself.
How long has it been since you’ve been out with someone you actually didn’t want to have an excuse to get away from ASAP? I know your heels are killing your feet, but enjoy knowing how much he wants to be with you. Yes, he’s trying to keep the night from ending.
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He doesn’t want it to end. Does he keep drawing things out? Maybe it was supposed to be dinner and a movie but now you’re going to a small diner for dessert. He’s having a great time and his smile proves it.
He doesn’t stop smiling all night. Okay, so he might just be picturing you naked, but odds are, that goofy grin is just because he’s truly happy being around you. He’s not being pushy, he just doesn’t want to lose you to some other guy. He’s going to ask you out again sometime during the first date. He asks for a second date. Any guy who’s interested in a relationship with you isn’t going to give a damn about waiting for you to call him or waiting X number of days to contact you. It’s a kiss that leaves you wanting more for days to come.
#2ND DATE UP TO THE MEN HOW TO#
I don’t know how to describe it, but it feels different. His deeper attraction for you comes out loud and clear when he goes in for the first kiss. You have an amazing first kiss. Not hinting around for sex doesn’t mean you aren’t going to get a little physical. He respects you and doesn’t want to jeopardize his chance at becoming more than just a date. Since he wants more from you than sex, he’s willing to be patient and wait for it. He doesn’t pressure you for sex. No, you don’t have some weird green stuff stuck between your teeth. Otherwise, how could he ever know you’re the one for him? If a guy wants a relationship with you, he’s going to make the effort to get to know you and what you’re all about. It’s a first date - why wouldn’t he want to know all about you? Even though you probably already know a bit about each other from your online dating profiles or mutual friends, if that’s how you met, there’s a lot of stuff that’s unknown. If he was, he would be prompt or even early. A guy who can’t be bothered to turn up to a date he arranged at the time he arranged is telling you before you even get started that he doesn’t respect your time and he’s not all that invested in your date or you. This might not seem like it has anything to do with you or a potential relationship, but it totally does. Once you know what to look for, it’s pretty easy to tell if he wants a relationship with you. Guys tend to decide pretty quickly if you’re hookup material, girlfriend material, or neither - and you don’t have to be a mind reader to figure out where they stand. It might only be the first date, but he probably already knows whether or not he’s interested and if he wants to see you again.
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